Manners …. they matter!
Etiquette is a code of polite conduct. If practiced you are less likely to offend or annoy people and you may even charm them.
*LETS START WITH CLIENTS SEEKING A SENSUAL OR EROTIC MASSAGE FROM AN ADVERTISEMENT*
There are a plethora of masseuses to choose, with photos and descriptions of variety services on offer. Once navigated and decision is made to attempt contact via direct call or sms message. THIS IS WHERE ” GOOD” MANNERS COME TO PLAY ……………………
A few points here may help put an understanding how and when proper decisive polite interaction will result in a pleasant and rewarding out come.
- CALLING DIRECT, is a nice way to have immediate personal contact. Keep it short and be mind full of what you read in the add description if wanting a little more information? no sex talk. Asking for more pic is also not advisable the choice was made on the pic in add so it is sufficient. Then establish; DAY;TIME;LENGTH OF time wished for massage;COST method of payment;DESTINATION.
- SMS or TXT, Also nice to introduce your self, not to long and with relevant wording. Read the add you have made contact to avoiding the therapist having to message information which is already in their descriptions. Establish: a time that will suit :day: clear on cost: method of payment: location.
- There is no need to describe your self physically or any other way unless there is an issue that therapist should be aware of.
- It is best to have made the appointment as close to the intended day as possible this helps avoid cancellations. Good hygiene of course. Take in if there has been guide lines which the therapist wishes for you to adhere regarding finale instructions.Exact address, parking, entering premises…so on.
NOW WE COME TO MASSEUSES DEALING WITH CLIENTS : a few points that may help in a homogeneous outcome for you.
- Keeping calm, having a pleasant manner on a call or replying to txt. Realizing this becomes very repetitive more so to masseuse. ( if the client becomes excessively annoying, best not to engage further. ” use the feature>> BLOCK NUMBER !” ) best thing ever.
- Acknowledging the clients may be nervous and apprehensive, this may give reason to awkwardness reflected on txt or communication skills. Put your self in their shoes.
- Have true and up to date photos of your self.
- Stick to the negotiated or set price.
- Greeting client in a friendly manner, appearing groomed and with good hygiene. Let the client take lead as in weather they are up for conversation or wish to keep it minimal.
- Calm clear decisive interaction, making your boundaries known early. Having confirmed clients expectations, so both parties are able to relax with each other.
- One does need to enjoy the work as there really is no way to hide distaste. Time off is a definite must.